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The Ultimate Guide to Eloping in Minnesota

A couple dressed in all black stands on a rocky cliffside overlooking the still blue waters of Lake Superior. The bride wears a black gown with a flowing black veil and holds a moody bouquet, while the groom gently leans in to kiss her. The serene lake stretches to the horizon under a soft, pale sky, with early green leaves framing the left side of the image.

Elopement Planning

May 14, 2025

Someone once said to me, “why would couples ever elope in Minnesota? Isn’t it just a bunch of corn fields?” That couldn’t be further from the truth. The North Shore of Minnesota is absolutely gorgeous, and I even compare it to the coast of Maine. With over 10,000 lakes, forests, and waterfalls, it’s a state rich in both beauty and variety. Yes, you can really elope here, and I promise corn fields won’t be in the background (unless of course, you’re wanting that).

You want a Minnesota elopement that is intimate, meaningful, and truly YOURS. This day is all about the two of you. No big crowds, no stress, just love and adventure. You want to focus on what really matters to you. From saying “I do” at sunset on the cliffs of the North Shore to exchanging vows by the waves of Lake Superior. No pressure. No rules.

But the idea of planning your elopement is daunting…even if it’s just the two of you. With so many decisions to make, it can feel like a lot is riding on your shoulders. But planning your elopement doesn’t have to cause stress! I’ve created this ultimate guide to help you plan your meaningful elopement in Minnesota. From permits and locations to vendors and seasonal tips. This is the ultimate guide to eloping in Minnesota.

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BUT FIRST, MEET YOUR ELOPEMENT DAY GUIDE

Hey there! I’m Jo! Your elopement photographer in Minnesota, and your guide to an elopement day that feels like you.

I planned an elopement day myself, and I’m here to help you plan your dream elopement day. If you’re here, you’re probably dreaming of a day that feels real, not rushed, not performative, and definitely not boxed into traditions that don’t fit.
You want to slow down, breathe it in, and celebrate your love your way.

But maybe the “how” feels overwhelming.
Where do you even start?
Which hiking trail, which secret tucked-away lake view to say your vows?
How do you plan for all the adventure without the stress? That’s where I come in. I help couples like you create an elopement day that’s deeply personal, beautiful, and totally unforgettable, with none of the pressure and all of the heart.

Because love like yours deserves more than pretty photos. It deserves to be witnessed, honored, and remembered, just as it is.

BEST PLACES TO ELOPE IN MINNESOTA

North Shore of Lake Superior – Duluth, Two Harbors, Grand Marais, Lutsen, Beaver Bay, Silver Bay

My All Time Favorite Spots:

Central Minnesota – “The Cities” (as we locals say) Minneapolis and St. Paul

My All Time Favorite Spots:

Private Cabins + Airbnbs

My Favorite Airbnb Rentals:

My Favorite Cabin Rentals:

Uffda, that’s a lot to take in, I know! I’m here to help you every step of the way. From hand-picked location ideas and trusted vendor recommendations to permits, travel tips, and lodging suggestions, I’ll guide you through it all so your day feels effortless and entirely you.

Here’s How to Choose The Right Elopement Location for You

Minnesota is home to so many beautiful places, it’s no wonder choosing just one can feel overwhelming.

Here are a few key things to consider when narrowing it down:

  • Desired Scenery: Think about what kind of backdrop resonates most with your love story. Do you want to be surrounded by pine trees? Stand at the edge of a cliff at sunrise? Exchange vows next to a waterfall or lake? Your scenery helps set the emotional tone for the day.

→ Pro Tip: Instead of asking “What’s the most beautiful spot?” try asking “What kind of experience do we want to have?”

  • Accessibility: Consider how adventurous you want to get. Do you prefer an easily walkable trail where guests in nice shoes can tag along? Or are you both envisioning a hidden, off-the-grid spot that requires hiking boots and a little grit? Your comfort level with terrain (and time!) can help you choose the right type of location. 🥾
  • Guest Count: Will it be just the two of you, or are you bringing a small group of your favorite people? Some locations have space for a few chairs and a mini picnic, while others are best suited for intimate moments with just the two of you and nature.
  • Season & Time of Day: Minnesota’s seasons completely transform the landscape. Spring brings wildflowers, summer offers warm weather and longer days, fall paints the trees in a million different colors, and winter covers everything in snow. The time of day matters too, sunrise offers solitude and soft light, while sunset brings warmth and glow.

→ Still unsure? I help all my couples scout and select their ideal location based on their vision, needs, and what feels most them. I’m here to help guide you every step of the way.

→ LET’S DREAM TOGETHER

WHEN TO ELOPE IN MINNESOTA: SEASONAL BREAKDOWN

Deciding to elope in Minnesota means choosing a location with distinct seasons, each offering different activities and backdrops for your ceremony. Whether you prefer a ceremony surrounded by the greenery in the spring, a summer elopement alongside the lake, saying your vows under trees filled with the beautiful fall colors, or a cozy cabin winter setting, Minnesota provides options for every preference.

→ Pro Tip for When to Elope: Consider having your ceremony on a weekday instead of the weekend. Trails and scenic spots are often much quieter, giving you more privacy, and a better chance to enjoy all the beauty without the crowds. It’s the perfect way to make your elopement feel even more intimate and personal.

  • Spring (April–May): Spring in Minnesota is one of my favorite times of the year! The ice slowly thaws, the lakes come to life, and there are so many different wildflowers! Spring brings greenery, longer daylight hours, and warmer temperatures making it an ideal season for outdoor ceremonies.
  • Summer (June–August): Summer in Minnesota offers long days and warm weather, making it an ideal time for an elopement in the forest or by a lake. I love Minnesota summers because they provide the perfect amount of warmth that isn’t humid, but still allow you to enjoy all the water activities the state has to offer! Minnesota summers are unlike anything I’ve experienced, but just make sure to have bug spray on hand! As your elopement guide, I’ll help craft a packing list so you can be prepared for all weather scenarios and not have to worry about forgetting something essential. Even something as small as a hair tie or an umbrella can really save the day!

→🪻Pro Tip for Summer Elopements: Wild lupines begin to bloom along the North Shore in early summer, with peak bloom typically occurring in June and July.

  • Fall (September–October): Autumn in Minnesota is truly so beautiful. I love Minnesota falls because they bring the coziest atmosphere, think flannel layers, thermos coffee, and the sound of leaves crunching underfoot. Time to re-watch Gilmore Girls! It’s a season that invites slower moments and intentional connection. Temperatures can vary quite a bit though, so I’ll help you create a detailed packing list to make sure you’re ready for anything, from chilly mornings to warm afternoons. Even bringing hand warmers or an extra blanket can make a huge difference in the fall!
  • Winter (November–March): While Minnesota winters are cold, I’ve found that for couples who choose to embrace the season, it can provide such a peaceful elopement setting. Imagine cozying up next to your love by a fire in a lodge or an A-frame Airbnb, sipping hot chocolate as you warm up after a winter activity such as snowshoeing, cross-country skiing, ice-fishing, ice skating, or hiking. So cozy!

LEGAL REQUIREMENTS TO ELOPE IN MINNESOTA

Making your marriage legal can feel a little daunting, I totally get it! Some couples choose to handle the legal paperwork before their elopement day to keep things simple (which is totally an option!). That said, I’ve put together a helpful guide to walk you through how to make your marriage official, the steps you’ll need to take, and how to feel confident every step of the way.

→ Here’s what you need to make your marriage official:

  • Marriage License: Apply at any Minnesota county office. No residency requirement.
  • Cost: Around $115 (or $40 with premarital counseling).
  • Waiting Period: None, same day pickup!
  • Officiant: You can hire an ordained officiant, or have a friend get ordained online.
  • Witnesses: You’ll need two witnesses age 16 or older.

First things first, its important to know that Minnesota is not a self-solemnizing state. This means you cannot perform a marriage ceremony just yourself, and you need to have an officiant and witnesses. Finding the right officiant can make your ceremony feel even more meaningful.

Who Can Legally Officiate in Minnesota?

  • Ordained ministers (including online ordinations like Universal Life Church)
  • Judges or court administrators
  • Minnesota officiants registered through a religious organization
  • Friends or family (if they get legally ordained online, it’s free and easy!)

This gives you tons of flexibility to choose someone who truly aligns with your vision, whether that’s a professional officiant or your best friend who’s seen your love story unfold from the beginning.

→ Pro Tip: You can also do your legal paperwork with a judge before or after your adventure elopement and exchange your personal vows privately, just the two of you. It’s your day, and you get to do it your way.

When Choosing the Right Officiant for You Ask Yourself:

  • Do we want someone spiritual, secular, or somewhere in between?
  • Are we comfortable with a close friend leading the ceremony?
  • Do we want help crafting vows or a personalized script?

I always recommend meeting your officiant ahead of time (virtually or in person) to make sure your values and vibe align. You want someone who feels like a calming, encouraging presence on your day.

Here are a Few Local Minnesota Officiants to Check Out:

BOOKING KEY VENDORS FOR YOUR ELOPEMENT DAY

Florists:

Hair & Makeup:

Cakes & Treats:

LGBTQ+ INCLUSIVE ELOPEMENTS IN MINNESOTA

As a photographer and elopement guide, I want to acknowledge that I’m not an expert on LGBTQ+ identities or experiences. But I am a committed ally, continually learning, unlearning, and doing the work to create safe, affirming, and joyful spaces for every couple I work with.

Your love is valid. Your story is sacred. And it’s an honor to document it with care, respect, and celebration. I’m not just here to help plan logistics, I’m here to create a space where you feel seen, safe, and completely free to show up as your full selves. Minnesota has a vibrant and growing LGBTQ+ community, and many elopement-friendly vendors across the state are queer-owned, affirming, and deeply committed to creating inclusive experiences. If you’ve ever felt unsure about whether a space or vendor is truly welcoming, you’re not alone. I’m here to remove that stress by connecting you with people who will celebrate your day with open hearts, not just open policies.

Choose LGBTQ+ Affirming Vendors

Working with vendors who understand, honor, and celebrate your identity can make all the difference. When reaching out to potential vendors, don’t hesitate to ask:

  • Do you have experience working with LGBTQ+ couples?
  • How do you ensure your services are inclusive and affirming?
  • Can I see examples of diverse couples you’ve worked with?

→ Pro Tip: Look for vendors who explicitly state their values on their website or social media. Ask yourself, are they using gender-neutral language, or just saying “bride” and “groom?” Language matters, and so does lived experience.

Where to Search for LGBTQ+ Inclusive Wedding Vendors:

Inclusive Ceremony Ideas

Make your day reflect you, and your story. Some ideas that can be especially meaningful:

Personalized Vows: Write vows that reflect your journey, shared values, and hopes for the future. You might include:

  • Acknowledging the path you’ve walked, and the courage or resilience of your story
  • Words of affirmation around chosen family, identity, or freedom
  • A vow to always create space for one another to grow

Honor Family or Chosen Family: Whether you have a large support system or just a few close people, you can:

  • Invite loved ones to share a reading or blessing
  • Have a “circle of love” moment, standing with you during your vows or surrounding you in silence and support
  • Ask guests (or remote loved ones) to write letters that you read aloud or tuck into your vow books

→ Pro Tip: There are no rules except this: make it yours. If something doesn’t feel aligned, don’t include it. If something speaks to you, go for it, even if it’s unconventional. Eloping is about freedom. Let your ceremony reflect the full beauty of who you are.

Your ceremony is yours, there are no rules, only what feels right.

Creating a Safe and Joy-Filled Space: Safety and comfort matter. Here are a few ways to protect the joy of your day:

  • Set Boundaries Early: If you anticipate challenges with certain guests or family members, it’s okay to limit the invite list or elope just the two of you
  • Have an Ally Crew: Whether it’s your photographer (hi, that’s me!), an officiant, or a trusted friend, surrounding yourself with supportive energy changes everything
  • Communicate with Vendors: Ensure everyone on your team respects your pronouns, identity, and relationship

ACTIVITIES FOR YOUR MINNESOTA ELOPEMENT & TIMELINE EXAMPLES

Eloping doesn’t mean skipping the fun, it means you get to choose the fun. Minnesota offers countless ways to add adventure, intimacy, and intention to your day. Whether you’re outdoorsy, artsy, food-loving, or laid-back, there’s a way to craft a timeline that feels completely you.

Activities to Include in Your Day

Adventure-Filled Ideas:

  • Sunrise or sunset hike to a remote overlook
  • Backpacking overnight elopement (say your vows at camp!)
  • Canoe or kayak paddle-in ceremony on a secluded lake
  • Cliffside first look at places like Palisade Head or Shovel Point
  • Swimming or dipping your feet in a lake post-ceremony
  • Stand-up paddleboarding together at golden hour
  • Mountain biking if that’s your shared hobby
  • Hammock hang-out in the forest for a mid-day break
  • Scenic drive-through the North Shore with stops for photos & pie
  • Waterfall vow renewal or portraits-MN has plenty!

Intimate & Slow Ideas:

  • Campfire vows with just the two of you
  • Journaling or drawing moment to reflect mid-day
  • Forest picnic with your favorite foods
  • Stargazing with a telescope if you’re staying overnight

For Winter Lovers:

  • Snowshoeing or cross-country skiing to a ceremony spot
  • Hot cocoa + cozy blanket portraits in the snow
  • Sledding in your wedding attire (bonus: epic photos!)
  • Stay in a cabin with outdoor hot tub or sauna time

→ Pro Tip: Your activities don’t have to be grand to be meaningful. Even something as simple as making coffee together at sunrise can become one of your favorite memories.

Sample Elopement Timelines

Here are a few real-life inspired examples to spark ideas:

Sunrise Hike + Picnic

4:30 AM – Meet at trailhead
5:30 AM – Hike to overlook
6:00 AM – First look + private vows at sunrise
6:30 AM – Light picnic breakfast + champagne toast
7:30 AM – Portraits + peaceful moments
9:00 AM – Hike down + coffee shop date
10:30 AM – Wrap-up or meet family for brunch

Full-Day Elopement with Guests

11:00 AM – Getting ready separately in cabins
12:30 PM – First look by the lake
1:00 PM – Ceremony with close friends + family
2:00 PM – Charcuterie board
3:00 PM – Canoe ride together
5:00 PM – Portraits in golden hour
6:30 PM – Campfire dinner + first dance
8:00 PM – S’mores, storytelling, and stargazing

Cozy Winter Elopement

1:00 PM – Cozy cabin prep + getting ready photos
2:30 PM – Snowshoe walk to ceremony site
3:00 PM – Vows + hot drinks
4:00 PM – Portraits in the snow
5:30 PM – Fire-lit dinner indoors or a snowy picnic
7:00 PM – Private first dance + slow evening unwind

→ Pro Tip: You’re not just planning an elopement, you’re creating an experience. Build in breathing room and moments to soak it all in. I help all my couples craft custom timelines that reflect their vision, comfort, and dreams.

WHAT TO PACK FOR YOUR MINNESOTA ELOPEMENT

Eloping in Minnesota means being ready for adventure. Whether you’re hiking, canoeing, or cozying up by a cabin fire, here’s a checklist to help you feel prepared, comfortable, and free to soak in every moment.

Wedding Essentials:

  • Your vow books + pens (trust me, you’ll want this keepsake!)
  • Marriage license + ID (file it in a waterproof pouch!)
  • Rings (a ring box or carabiner case helps if you’re hiking)
  • Any ceremony items (unity candles, handfasting cord, etc.)
  • Printed timeline + contact list if working with vendors or guests

Adventure-Ready Gear:

  • Hiking boots or trail shoes (break them in ahead of time!)
  • Comfortable base layers under your outfit if it’s chilly
  • Headlamps or flashlights for early morning or post-sunset
  • A backpack to carry water, snacks, and layers
  • Lightweight picnic blanket or sitting mat
  • Bug spray + sunscreen
  • Mini first aid kit (especially for backcountry spots)

Weather-Proof Items:

  • Rain jacket or clear umbrella (photo-friendly!)
  • Warm layers, even summer mornings/evenings can get brisk
  • Hand warmers for fall/winter elopements
  • Towel or drybag if you’re paddling or near water

Beauty + Comfort:

  • Touch-up makeup kit + mirror
  • Travel-size hairspray, bobby pins, or comb
  • Deodorant, chapstick, and any go-to comfort items
  • Snacks + hydration (think trail mix, fruit, protein bars, and water)
  • Tissues (for happy tears)

Bonus Items for the Feels:

  • A small gift or letter exchange
  • A shared playlist + Bluetooth speaker for your first dance
  • A blanket shawl or wrap to cozy up during portraits
  • A bottle of champagne or favorite drink to celebrate

→ Pro Tip: Pack your elopement gear the day before, and double check it like it’s a backpacking trip. Weather can shift quickly in Minnesota, and being prepared means less stress day of.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

  • What permits do we need for an outdoor elopement in Minnesota?

Permits may be required depending on your location, especially for state parks. I’ll guide you through this process and handle the paperwork for you, so you don’t have to worry about permits or permissions on the day of your elopement.

  • Do we need a marriage license to elope in Minnesota?

Yes, you’ll need a marriage license to get legally married in Minnesota. Getting a marriage license in Minnesota is a straightforward process. When you work with me, I will give you the exact county clerk/notary, etc, for you to go to and make sure you have all the details.

  • Do we need to be residents of Minnesota to elope there?

No, you do not need to be a resident of Minnesota to elope there. Anyone, regardless of where they live, can get married in Minnesota as long as they meet the state’s marriage requirements.

  • Can we have guests at our elopement?

Absolutely! While elopements are typically more intimate, many couples choose to invite a small group of close family and friends. I’ll work with you to make sure your guest list fits within your desired location’s capacity and that everyone is accommodated comfortably.

  • What should we bring to our elopement?

I provide a detailed packing list to make sure you have everything you need such as rings, attire, paperwork, and any personal items or special touches for the ceremony. If you’re traveling from out of state, I’ll make sure you’re fully prepared with everything you need for a smooth day.

  • What is the best time of year to elope in Minnesota? 

The best time of year to elope depends solely on your preferences and what you are looking for during your elopement day. I’ve put together a helpful guide that details each season and the best locations to elope in Minnesota. Read the guide here → When to Elope in Minnesota

MINNESOTA ELOPEMENT PACKAGES

Planning your elopement doesn’t have to cause anxiety. Here’s how I make the experience easy…

✓ Vendor Recommendations – I recommend handpicked, trusted local vendors that align with your vision, and reflect shared values. 

✓ Personalized Timeline – A detailed, stress-free timeline for your entire elopement day so you’re never wondering what’s next.

✓ Handpicked Locations – Recommendations for the most breathtaking, unique, and hidden spots for your elopement, tailored to your vision.

✓ Permits & Permitting – I take care of the paperwork for any location that requires special permits (free of charge).

✓ Travel & Stay Assistance – I assist in finding nearby hotels, Airbnb options, or cozy cabins if you’re traveling for your elopement. I also provide a detailed packing list so you don’t forget anything essential. 

✓ Natural Moments – My approach is unposed and authentic. There’s no rigid shot list, just your love, documented as it naturally unfolds.

Looking for someone to guide you through your elopement day process? I offer custom elopement photography experiences that include:


• Photography coverage
• Custom timeline planning + location guidance
• Unlimited consultations leading up to your day
• Sneak peek gallery within 72 hours
• Full gallery of edited, high-resolution images
• Printing rights for prints and albums

→ EXPLORE ELOPEMENT PACKAGES HERE

READY TO ELOPE IN MINNESOTA?

Heck yes! I’m here to help you envision, plan, and create a day that’s intentional, adventurous, and uniquely yours. I’ll guide you, cheer you on, so you can slow down, soak it all in, and be fully present.

With me, you’ll get more than stunning photos, you’ll get the ease of your elopement being planned from start to finish and an experience that you remember for the rest of your lives.

As your photographer, planner, and guide, I’ll walk with you every step of the way, from hand-picking locations and navigating permits to connecting you with affirming vendors and capturing every moment along the way.

→ LET’S START DREAMING UP YOUR MINNESOTA ELOPEMENT

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